Hi,
Sorry, we did not receive your prior email.
We have setup "swocdama.org" and "www.swocdama.org" on our server for your site www.swoc-dama.memberlodge.org, so you can proceed on your end.
Instead of IP address - better use CNAME to direct your domain to sites.wildapricot.com. You can find more details (and IP) at http://help.wildapricot.com/display/DOC/Custom+domain+setup
Evgeny Zaritovsky,
Apricot's Kernel
Wild Apricot team